> Why is someone bipolar for reuniting with the person they love,
> regardless of the history?
Reuniting? Is that what you call this? On again, off again. Yes, No.
Madly in love with each other, then he buggers off to Miami for unknown
reasons. They get divorced, now she wants him back... but with
restrictions!
Sadly, I've had experience with a bipolar girlfriend and Xiomi's
history smacks of exactly the same situation! If it smells bipolar, it
probably is!
'Nuff said.
Ian
jcapulet - 29 Sep 2004 22:14 GMT
> Reuniting? Is that what you call this? On again, off again. Yes, No.
> Madly in love with each other, then he buggers off to Miami for
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> Ian
I'm not going to claim I know them personally, but a lot of people have
do rocky relationships. Rocky might even be an understatement. That
doesn't necessarily mean she's bi-polar.
Jenney & Mark - 29 Sep 2004 23:47 GMT
> Reuniting? Is that what you call this? On again, off again. Yes, No.
> Madly in love with each other, then he buggers off to Miami for
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> Ian
Aside from the fact that MANY relationships are rocky, the OP's case is
only particularly unusual because they had to go through an immigration
process before being married initially. There are many couples who
marry, divorce, then remarry each other again. Just because it didn't
happen to YOU doesn't mean it doesn't happen to others.
So Ian -- you might want to leave your "that's-what-happened-to-me-so-this-MUST-be-what's-going-on-
here" attitude at the door. If you should've learned ANYTHING from
this NG, it's that everyone's situation is different. There is
little generalization to throw around here, ESPECIALLY when it
comes to relationship matters. It is unfortunate that you haven't
learned that yet.
I have noticed that some of your posts seem very helpful and
insightful. Unfortunately, it's the immature posts like the ones above
which overshadow that helpfulness, damage your reputation and make
your participation here suspect. I'm sure you don't care about that in
the least (obviously); just thought I'd point it out to you unless you
were unaware.
~ Jenney
ps. And what does bipolar "smell like" anyway?
ian-mstm - 30 Sep 2004 00:46 GMT
> Aside from the fact that MANY relationships are rocky, the OP's
> case is only particularly unusual because they had to go through
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> ps. And what does bipolar "smell like" anyway?
Yes, you're absolutely right - my entire response was nothing more than
an infantile response fully designed to anger people with my childish
attempt to avoid responsibility in an increasingly complex environment.
Y'got me there. I was going to say, "If it smells like sh.t..." but
somehow that didn't seem nearly as relevant.
Ian