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Victim of domestic violence (male)

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Help - 26 Jun 2006 08:37 GMT
Hi all,

I have been a victim of domestic violence , as my wife  hit me resulting
in her being arrested and server with Final Restraining Order , prior to
that we failed to attend the green interview  due to the  wife hiding
the  letter . Hence thinking it was lost in the mail I am  now filing
for divorce on the grounds of DV. I  would like to ask has anybody been
this route  to obtain a green card ? if so what steps and could I be
deported as I don’t know my status

OI do have a lawyer but need to be on the other side of the coin

oh i have seen the ACT 237
ian-mstm - 26 Jun 2006 13:00 GMT
> Hi all,
>
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>
> oh i have seen the ACT 237

I don't think hiding a green card constitutes domestic violence, but I
could be wrong.

What does this mean?

You posted in September 2005 that your AOS had been denied. What have
you been doing for 9 months?

Ian
Help - 26 Jun 2006 15:34 GMT
> Hi all,
>
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>
> oh i have seen the ACT 237

NO I she has been arrested on of domestic violence changes ,

And frim thime of interview I have tried to do motion to reopen which is
a waste of time
pianoplayer - 26 Jun 2006 15:39 GMT
> NO I she has been arrested on of domestic violence changes ,
>
> And from the time of interview I have tried to do motion to reopen
> which is a waste of time
>
> (oh my time line is way out and has not been updated)

I dont see why you would not be able to obtain a waiver after divorce,
if you have good documentation about the battery/abuse. Domestic
violence against men in the household is becoming more and more common.
However, I think that this is something that you would definitely need
legal guidance for, someone who can help you prepare your
documentation, argument etc. You may need an attorney in any event for
divorce. Best of luck.
Help - 26 Jun 2006 15:53 GMT
> I dont see why you would not be able to obtain a waiver after divorce,
> if you have good documentation about the battery/abuse. Domestic
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> your documentation, argument etc. You may need an attorney in any
> event for divorce. Best of luck.

I have an attorney just would like to share the info with the forum
and give the men a heds up the we also get abused . No disrespect
to females .

but if any other users are going through the same thing can we share the
info , thanks
Boiler - 26 Jun 2006 15:59 GMT
> I have an attorney just would like to share the info with the forum
> and give the men a heds up the we also get abused . No disrespect to
> females .
>
> but if any other users are going through the same thing can we share
> the info , thanks

There have been many threads on this subject, search for VAWA.

As far as I am aware the principals are the same, male or female.
Jenney & Mark - 27 Jun 2006 17:13 GMT
> I have an attorney just would like to share the info with the forum
> and give the men a heds up the we also get abused . No disrespect to
> females .
>
> but if any other users are going through the same thing can we share
> the info , thanks

You said back in Sept 2005 that you never got your appointment letter
because you had moved and the letter was not forwarded to your new
address. No mention of domestic violence or marital problems. You came
back in March 2006 and said that you had applied for a new EAD (even
though you are here illegally and not eligible for one) and wanted to
know how you could renew your drivers license. Again, no mention of
domestic violence or marital problems.

You have said in several threads that you have tried to file a MTR but
that it's "a waste of time". From that I'm assuming that it did not go
your way? Or did you simply never file a MTR? You got your denial letter
almost 10 months ago and you still have not said what the current status
is on your case.

I am sorry if your wife hit you, but given all the other elements to
your immigration journey thus far -- which you left out of this thread
-- it sounds like filing via VAWA is a convenient stretch.

~ Jenney
janadeen - 27 Jun 2006 17:20 GMT
> Hi all,
>
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>
> oh i have seen the ACT 237

You have an attorney.

The board does not know your whole story and all of its idiocincrasies
or have all your documents and issues in front of us to peruse.

Follow the advice of the atty you're paying.

If you want another side of the coin, as you put it, go and consult with
another atty.
Help - 27 Jun 2006 17:48 GMT
> You have an attorney.
>
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> If you want another side of the coin, as you put it, go and consult
> with another atty.

Thanks for all your help and keep up the good work on the forum..
Plese ignore the timeline as i have found out the truth on why the
interview was missed

q) Public Charge is wife still responsible for me while I am married ?
  also where is the ACT number on the BCIS site

Sometimes all we need some advise to point us in the correct direction
as nobody know every thing  this is why we must ask
ian-mstm - 27 Jun 2006 18:40 GMT
> Thanks for all your help and keep up the good work on the forum..
> Plese ignore the timeline as i have found out the truth on why the
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> Sometimes all we need some advise to point us in the correct direction
> as nobody know every thing  this is why we must ask

She is responsible *only* if you successfully adjust your status. Since
that hasn't happened and isn't likely to happen... she does not have to
worry about it.

Ian
Help - 27 Jun 2006 19:04 GMT
> She is responsible *only* if you successfully adjust your status.
> Since that hasn't happened and isn't likely to happen... she does not
> have to worry about it.
>
> Ian

Hmm so what dose this mean the (corret me if i am a wrong)
Secition (6) on the I-i34 (affiidavit of support) which was  sent in
with the appliaction
Noorah101 - 27 Jun 2006 19:20 GMT
> Hmm so what dose this mean the (corret me if i am a wrong)
> Secition (6) on the I-i34 (affiidavit of support) which was  sent in
> with the appliaction

The I-134 that was submitted with the application for your K-1 visa is
no longer valid.  It's the I-864 that was submitted with your AOS
paperwork that Ian was referring to.  That one would only be valid if
you do indeed adjust status.

Besides which, the I-134 is not a legally binding contract, whereas
the I-864 is.

Rene
Help - 27 Jun 2006 19:32 GMT
> The I-134 that was submitted with the application for your K-1 visa is
> no longer valid.  It's the I-864 that was submitted with your AOS
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>
> Rene

Hmm so how do you work that out ?  in section SIX and reads your are
bound for 3 years
Noorah101 - 27 Jun 2006 19:37 GMT
> Hmm so how do you work that out ?  in section SIX and reads your are
> bound for 3 years

These are very good questions to ask that second lawyer you
consulted with. :)

Rene
Noorah101 - 27 Jun 2006 19:40 GMT
> These are very good questions to ask that second lawyer you consulted
> with. :)
>
> Rene

I just noticed in your timeline:

07.02.03 K1 Visa issued in London

That means the I-134 was signed previous to that time.  Which means the
3 years is coming to a close anyway....if it is valid for 3 years, it's
over in a few days anyway.

Rene
ian-mstm - 27 Jun 2006 19:44 GMT
> Hmm so how do you work that out ?  in section SIX and reads your are
> bound for 3 years

This has been discussed ad nauseum for years in this forum. Even the
attorneys who frequent this newsgroup have agreed (well, if memory
serves) that the I-134 is not enforceable. It sounds like you're simply
angry and are trying to screw over your wife. Hey... good luck to you!

Ian
Noorah101 - 27 Jun 2006 19:48 GMT
> Hmm so how do you work that out ?  in section SIX and reads your are
> bound for 3 years

What is it you're trying to accomplish, anyway?  Whether the I-134 is
still valid or not, doesn't really affect your immigration status
here at all.

What's your main goal here?

Rene
Help - 27 Jun 2006 20:11 GMT
> What is it you're trying to accomplish, anyway?  Whether the I-134 is
> still valid or not, doesn't really affect your immigration status
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>
> Rene

Just wanted to know that’s all if she was responsible for me as I
cannot work as I do have a EAD due to the fact the Interview letter
was hidden
Noorah101 - 27 Jun 2006 20:19 GMT
> Just wanted to know that’s all if she was responsible for me as I
> cannot work as I do have a EAD due to the fact the Interview letter
> was hidden

I see.
Help - 29 Dec 2006 04:17 GMT
> Hmm so how do you work that out ?  in section SIX and reads your are
> bound for 3 years

Just to inform you all you do not need a lawyer in this case no
disrespect to all the advise given , save some cash and just file I 360
and your problems are solved just give BCIS all the documentation
required and hay preseto

Thanks again for all the giving advice here
Jenney & Mark - 29 Dec 2006 16:16 GMT
> Just to inform you all you do not need a lawyer in this case no
> disrespect to all the advise given , save some cash and just file I
> 360 and your problems are solved just give BCIS all the documentation
> required and hay preseto
>
> Thanks again for all the giving advice here

Firstly, every case is different. It is irresponsible to suggest that
all one needs to do is "just file I-360 and your problems are solved" --
because what if it isn't enough? What happens to the person then??

Secondly, I see that after last hearing about your tangled immigration
journey, you're planning to move back to the UK.
(http://britishexpats.com/forum/showthread.php?t=415822) So, when you
say that your problems were "solved" did you mean that you decided to
just leave the US?

~ Jenney
dakota44 - 30 Dec 2006 01:40 GMT
> Firstly, every case is different. It is irresponsible to suggest that
> all one needs to do is "just file I-360 and your problems are solved"
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>
> ~ Jenney

Strange...strange indeed.  The mind boggles.
Noorah101 - 27 Jun 2006 17:27 GMT
> Hi all,
>
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>
> oh i have seen the ACT 237

After hearing about your past immigration issues, such as not going to
the AOS interview, not filing an MTR, etc., I'm just guessing that you
actually have no status here right now, and are here illegally, and do
not have permission to work.

Of course your lawyer would know better than I would, but I'm just
guessing that even if you divorce, you no longer have a route to a green
card because you actually have no status now to adjust from.  Something
to ask your lawyer about.

By the way, what DOES your lawyer advise, and why do you want to get
laymen's opinions?  Maybe your lawyer is telling you some news you don't
want to hear?

Rene
janadeen - 27 Jun 2006 17:35 GMT
> After hearing about your past immigration issues, such as not going to
> the AOS interview, not filing an MTR, etc., I'm just guessing that you
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>
> Rene

HELP - note the key word here - "lawyer, lawyer, lawyer".
 
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